Sunday 27 May 2012

A Plant In My Garden

Few months ago, I saw one of the plants in our garden was almost withered. Then I started to pay attention on it. Deeply inside my heart, I wished it can be healthy again because it has some special meaning to me. My late father bought it for me when I was eight. Ergo, I watering it everyday and took good care of it. Today, I noticed it grows luxurious! Then I realized it is the same theory in our life. Time and efforts will heal us. We will get through it as long as we have the persistence and faith.

Thursday 24 May 2012

A call to remind

Yesterday night I was reminded how realistic people can be. One moment they are your friends, the next seconds they are not. A friend telling me he is doing insurance business now. He have met so many different types of people. Some friends supporting him although they already bought the plan with others. Some said they are cool to hang out and hear him sharing the thing but they back off after that.They ignoring his calls, pretending their schedules are full. I just don't understand why these kinds of "friends" don't want to be honest to him if they don't feel comfortable to meet him. Why avoiding him like he is a virus. He just tried to do his job diligently. He won't force you to buy if you don't want to. It is up to you. So please, care about people feelings, he is our friend!

Weirdo

There are many types of people in the world. But I have never met one like this. He pushing you away while u want him so badly and comes to you when you are so over him. I wish he can understand when people said they don't won't to talk and they mean it especially when someone is going through a extremely hard time in their life. Have mercy and leave them alone. You do not have the right to mess with people life.

Monday 21 May 2012

Inspiration Quotes from Desperate Housewives

After I watched the finale of Desperate Housewives, a lots of thoughts crossed my mind. The drama is inspiring. The final episode makes me cry. I am so impressed by what Gaby said.

“Let me tell you something about life. Anything that’s worth doing is hard.”

The advice given to Bree. “ Looking at what has been taken from us is a bad way to go through life. Looking for what we can give to others is far better.”

In the end of the final episode, Mary Alice background narration "In life we all make plans, but sometimes they don't turn out the way we expected. By trying to help out, we may damage a relationship. By attempting to reach out, we may push someone further away. By digging into the past, we may enrich our present."

And then when Susan said this "Living away from you guys has been hard on me. Because sometimes when friends live apart, they sometimes grow apart, too. But, no matter how busy or how crazy our lives are, something always seems to happen to bring us back together. And that started tonight with this dinner. May we have many, many more" It touched my heart. I felt the same way before. Most of my dear friends live far away, we will only see each other once in a long time.

I am gonna miss this drama so much.



Can I make and stick to a decision?

I always dare to make differences in my life. I always listen to my gut and it always turn out right. The question is I always worry about WHAT IF. What if I made a wrong decision?
What is my gut telling me?
Is there anything I am ignoring? I have considered medium and long-term factors and implications.
I have no idea what I am afraid of. What are my fears?
I feel insecure and I doubt my decision. But today, I come to a decision. Since a decision is made, there is no way back and I cannot think of WHAT IF anymore. I will committed enough to my decision and trust my own judgement.